I always thought that I was a pretty liberal thinker as opposed to the conservative Indians. But its surprising what one can learn about themselves once they interact with people from different cultures. Having met and befriended people from different cultures, I began to understand a lot of things about myself as well as our culture. While some of what I saw didn't make me happy, some made me prouder then I had been before.
However, I saw that the Non-Indians were quick to find faults with us, and adorn their facebook profiles with not-so flattering status messages, ensuring a discussion where they would pull out each and every stereotype about India possible. Did it anger me? Ofcouse it did. This was a country where some tried to loot them, and some made them uncomfertable, but this was also a country which welcomed them with open arms, where people went out of their way to be hospitable, where their culture was understood and adopted and where they were allowed to be themselves. Despite this, they could only see the creepy Indian men, or the incomparable education system.
This coming from people whose county sponsored our neighbour with "foreign aid" to wipe us out, and pretended to be our allies and bothered about our welfare. A country which secretly fears us, envies our economic growth and places spies in our intelligence systems.
It annoys me when our own country people put such people on a pedestal because of their skin colour. They cheer and applaud a black president and consider his colour to be his strength, but want to change their own skin colour. They allow the "outsiders" to enter clubs without any entry fee, have specially reserved tables and places but won't allow their own countrymen in.
If we don't stand up against this, nobody else will. And accepting this behaviour is agreeing with them.
However, I saw that the Non-Indians were quick to find faults with us, and adorn their facebook profiles with not-so flattering status messages, ensuring a discussion where they would pull out each and every stereotype about India possible. Did it anger me? Ofcouse it did. This was a country where some tried to loot them, and some made them uncomfertable, but this was also a country which welcomed them with open arms, where people went out of their way to be hospitable, where their culture was understood and adopted and where they were allowed to be themselves. Despite this, they could only see the creepy Indian men, or the incomparable education system.
This coming from people whose county sponsored our neighbour with "foreign aid" to wipe us out, and pretended to be our allies and bothered about our welfare. A country which secretly fears us, envies our economic growth and places spies in our intelligence systems.
It annoys me when our own country people put such people on a pedestal because of their skin colour. They cheer and applaud a black president and consider his colour to be his strength, but want to change their own skin colour. They allow the "outsiders" to enter clubs without any entry fee, have specially reserved tables and places but won't allow their own countrymen in.
If we don't stand up against this, nobody else will. And accepting this behaviour is agreeing with them.
Comments
Westerners are more pretentious than most people... yes... but their point is not unsubstantiated. We are NOT a very accomodatiing race. We have become more westernised than we would accept. We have in our course of history lost our religion, culture and beliefs, and have adopted the western way of life.
I mean look at us blogging at this very moment.
Non-Indians will always find faults with us, as we find faults with them... the reason being that we don't want to accept the truth. The only way there can be a strike of equilibrium is to take all criticism as constructive criticism.
Don't be emotional, and take the logical high road, and let them say what they want. Never retort, never bow your head. Passive resistance is and always will bet he indian way. Take their criticism and view it logically, and if there's something you find which is true in what they say, then change that aspect about yourself, and take the rest in your stride.
By d way, which club in India allows foreigners to enter for free?? n dun allow indians in?? never heard of dis...
I hope you are right
I hope you are right and things change...:-)
thanks again for reading my blog